About the Team

Team Attitude at Altitude.

I am trying to remember the precise moment, that fateful Friday evening at the Fox, when suddenly a plan was being hatched.

It all started quite innocently, a couple of glasses of Sauvignon Blanc, a conversation about the contents of an average girlie handbag, then it all seems be rather a blur. Waking up the next day, having a moment of smug laziness to be savoured… ‘Today is Saturday’…no school run, no work, just a little gentle pottering around the veggie patch.

What happened?? How on earth did we manage to decide that it would be a great idea to have a little challenge, something fun, something that would be a reason to bother to go to the gym? I was clearly experiencing an endorphin rush as I had cycled all the way across the village that very afternoon, (must be at least 2/3 of a mile), impressively breaking into only a mild sweat on the Worton Rd, stopping only once to buy emergency chocolate. However, this marvellous feat of fitness paled into insignificance as Deb was just about to throw herself out of an aeroplane and had made the phenomenal achievement of raising well over £2,500 for her madness. Well whatever happened, the decision was made to climb Kilimanjaro next September, and we had set ourselves the target of raising £20,000.

So here we are. Four rather bewildered forty somethings, experiencing a flush of middle youth. Deb has had a year fighting breast cancer and has been an inspiration to all who know her, the rest of us, all pretty unfit, busy juggling, feeling that we have achieved something if we get the kids in a pair of socks that match. Kili here we come.

Fundraising has begun with a swing. We have a Calendar planned for Christmas and have persuaded 12 unsuspecting men folk to promote their business’s in the calendar.

We have had fantastic support from the local radio and papers, who have offered us some great coverage, and will follow our progress, we also have a web page in development so all sponsors will get a mention on this.

Everything is happening at such a pace – it’s all so exciting. Thank you to everyone for their support so far.

Helen, Debs, Annemarie, Audra

 

My Cancer Story and beyond – Deb Hunt

My name is Deb Hunt, I live in Oxfordshire with my husband Martin, two teenage children and a horse sized Labradoodle dog named Bailey. It was on April 1^st 2008 that I discovered I was to become one of the 46,000 women in the UK that are diagnosed with breast cancer each year. April 1^st , ‘April Fools Day’, a day when jokes are played – unfortunately for me it was no laughing matter! At the age of 43; wife; mother; part-time charity worker; dog walker; taxi service etc etc,  juggling life and trying to keep all the balls in the air on a daily basis, as we all do, I decided that I was not going to become a ‘victim’ and that I would tackle this challenge head on.

A mastectomy quickly followed, then 18 weeks of chemotherapy and 5 weeks of daily doses of radiotherapy, with the weekends off for good behaviour!

Black humour got us through and smiling and laughing really was the best medicine. When I went in for my surgery I hung a picture of that famous David Beckham Armani ad on the end of my bed with the strap line ‘only doctors this good looking need stop here!’ It worked like a dream, all the doctors and nurses had a smile on their face as soon as they entered the room and it immediately banished any gloom.

I can’t pretend that the chemotherapy was fun, believe me, having one tit and no hair doesn’t do a lot for a girls confidence! but with the support of wonderful family and friends and more laughter than I have ever had in my life, we made it through. I say ‘we’ because being diagnosed with any sort of cancer doesn’t just affect the individual, it has an impact on all those around you.

So, what are my top tips for getting through the biggest challenge of your life?

1. Smile, smile, smile – don’t let it get you down. If you smile, those around you smile too and I believe looking at the funny side of things really helps.
2. Write a diary (mine’s called ‘My Right Tit!’) – Write down the good things, write down the bad things, write down how you feel. When you really don’t feel like smiling it’s a good way to vent your anger and frustration at the down right unjustness of the disease and why it’s chosen to inflict itself on your life.
3. When you go in for surgery get David Beckham (George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp – the choice is yours!) on the end of your bed, it works a treat!
4. After surgery aim to wear your ‘normal’ clothes as soon as possible. Girls, get your lip gloss and mascara on before the docs come round, celebrate your eyelashes – let’s face it you are gonna be without them for a while so make the most of them while you can!
5. Get your ‘new hair’ sorted as soon as you know you will be having chemo. Take your wig to the hairdressers; get it cut to a style that suits you. Wigs usually have about 40% too much hair in them, having it styled makes it look more realistic. I was so pleased with mine I wore it out to lunch that day and I met people during my chemotherapy that had absolutely no idea what I was going through – that was a massive morale boost. Having a good wig (or several if you prefer) also gave me the pleasure (?) of shaving my hair off as soon as it started to fall out. I was in control of it, not the chemo and I didn’t even cry until I saw it disappearing up the hoover nozzle!
6. Acupuncture helped me too. I had a weekly session and it really helped control fatigue and also kept my blood counts high, preventing any delays in the chemo cycles.
7. If your chemo is on a 3 week cycle by the third week you usually feel reasonably good. Plan something for each of those weeks. Get out to lunch with your girl friends, do something fun, do something ‘normal’.
8. If it’s possible carry on working. I was lucky in that I had an office based job. I had one week off after each chemo cycle and then went back to work for two weeks before starting the process again. It keeps a sense of normality in your life and certainly makes the weeks go by faster.
9. Welcome all the treatment they throw at you. Accept the chemo as a friend not an enemy. The side effects may not be pleasant but at least you know it’s doing something!
10. Eat chocolate, drink wine, read magazines, laugh with friends, make the most of life and don’t let the shear damned inconvenience of having breast cancer change the person you are.

So, there you go. Deb Hunt’s top tips for getting through all the bull!

I finished radiotherapy last November and looking back the whole experience now seems to be a bit surreal. As I left the hospital for the last time I suddenly felt as if I had fallen into a vast void. What now? No more routine visits, no more doctors feeling your boobs (oops, sorry I meant boob!), no more monitoring your every move. I needed something to focus on and in a moment of madness decided that I would do something that I would never have considered doing before; a skydive!

Five months later I threw myself out of a plane (strapped to a good looking instructor of course!) and raised £2500 for Breakthrough Breast Cancer, the UK’s top breast cancer charity. It was an amazing experience and made me realise that anything was achievable. I have never felt more alive than during those free-falling seconds before the parachute went up and by the time I had landed on the ground I was a different woman.

The old cliché that ‘life is for living’ is so true. Cancer is a wake up call. With the great research that is taking place, around breast cancer in particular, more women are surviving the disease but having gone through it puts a new perspective on your life. Before breast cancer I was drifting. It has given me a new focus and I am now determined to help in the fight against the disease in the hope that none of my family or friends have to go through what I have been through. Great research doesn’t come without a cost so following the skydive, and a few too many glasses of wine, myself and three great friends decided that we would do something ‘big’ to raise a few more pennies for the cause.

It was a pretty fateful evening that night in the pub, because by the end of it we had decided that we were all up for a massive challenge, something that was way out of our comfort zone, something that would mean that we would have to train hard to be fit to do it and something that would be impressive enough to enable us to raise the target we had set ourselves of £20,000. That challenge is the Kilimanjaro Summit Trek in September 2010! At 5,892metres Kilimanjaro is the highest point in the African continent and the tallest free standing mountain in the world. Now if I could just put things into context, all four of us get out of breath running up the stairs, so you can see we have quite a way to go before we tackle the summit!

This adventure has already completely changed my daily life. We all decided that we would fund the trip ourselves so that all the money raised would go to the charity (Breakthrough Breast Cancer) and have tried to approach the challenge in as business-as-like fashion as possible. We started off by getting ourselves into the local paper and from there we were offered a free fundraising website by a local web-design company, Web-Right of Chipping Norton. Having our own website (www.twin-peaks.co.uk – get the pun, twin peaks!!) has made a tremendous difference and it’s now attracting quite a bit of attention – We even have an American sponsor ; Susan Beausang, the President of 4women.com is going to be supplying us with branded pink ski hats for the trek!

This challenge is also a journey of self development, something that we didn’t anticipate. We have found ourselves giving press and radio interviews, meeting with business executives, learning marketing and PR tricks, all skills that will no doubt help us in the future. It’s also amazingly good fun thinking up different fundraising ideas and innovative ways to get people to part with their money as charities in particular are finding it hard in the present economic climate.

We are producing a cheeky 2010 calendar featuring all local business men; we have called it ‘Chaps for Baps!’  They are advertising their business with a tongue in cheek pose, a cheeky smile and very little else! All the photos are in black and white with a pink bra somewhere in the scene. They have all been very game and I’m sure the calendar will keep people smiling throughout next year! Having the website has enabled us to be able to sell them online (please check it out!) and we are hoping that this will be a good fundraiser towards our total.

So you see, there is life after breast cancer. If I’m being totally honest I think it’s fair to say that there is a better life after breast cancer. I enjoy and appreciate my friends and family much more than I did before (and that was quite a lot!); I try to see the funny side and the positive in everything; I don’t take things for granted, like the beautiful countryside that I live in or a clear blue sky. All these things have new meaning when you become a ‘survivor’. At the end of the day, none of us know how long the Earth will be graced with our unique presence, so let’s make the most of it while we can and make a difference whilst we’re here.

If you would like to help us achieve our mountainous mission please check out our website www.twin-peaks.co.uk